Stages and Seasons

Stages and Seasons

“Marriages go through different developmental stages. Does marriage have its equivalent to the ‘Terrible Two’s’ or the stormy teenage years? In fact, it does. But because people are unfamiliar with the emotional terrain, the normal hills and valleys of marriage, these predictable transitional periods are often misunderstood. Those who manage to weather these stormy periods usually come out the other side with greater love and commitment to their spouses.”
– Michele Weiner-Davis

Michele is correct. How would you describe the stage you are in today? She references Terrible Two’s and stormy teenage years, but not all stages are bad. If you have been to one of our retreats, you know that we spend time unpacking the idea of seasons that couples enter into. There is a way to enjoy each season just as you can enjoy the climate changes that come with seasons. Enjoy the season! Do you want to build a snowman? How about a picnic in a field of bluebonnets? What about crafting sandcastles together just beyond the reach of breaking waves? When is the last time you took pictures in a pumpkin patch? Seasons and stages will come. Leverage them for your good. In some cases, you will laugh longer. In other cases, you will simply need to become more patient and give grace in greater abundance. You will “come out the other side with greater love and commitment.”

Thank you for supporting 3S Ministries as we care for couples and families. Our workshops are offered free to the military and we are able to continue because of your support. We have more Coast Guard engagements scheduled over the summer. Please consider contributing during May. Memorial Day is a tremendous reminder that we should care for those who care for us. We will be leading a Marriage Enrichment Weekend for wounded veterans and their spouses August 11-12. This event is free of charge to the participants. Please consider providing a scholarship to help support the effort. Thank you! Donations can be made online at www.3Sministries.org